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Hello everyone, my name is Heather Rose Swim Gram McKlenus McKay, now Heather Marie Zastera. I was born on March 23, 1988, to Christina M Gram, Michael M McKlenus. I was due on May 18, 1988, but my mother was traveling with her wife Sulita Ann Swim and went in to laborer two months early. I had some problems with my eyes and lungs and many other problems. I was in the hospital for about four to five months, when the time came for my parents to come get me from the hospital I was already gone.  I grow up in a home that sexually abused me from the time I was 10 months old to 4 years old. Then I was put into four foster homes, then I was adopted into what I thought would be a good home. I found out different about three years into living there.  Abuse just came in different way, like being spanked till I would not sit down. being made to brush my teeth with soap for lying. Being made to more chores on top of the ones I already had to do. Many of you might say doing more chores is not abuse, but when I was done with my chores most night I went without dinner. See my adopted mother is a woman that thought having more kids was more help with the chores she and my adopted older brother had to do. Her form of love was not many I love you or hugs.